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A 28-yeаr-оld wоmаn wаs walking thrоugh her local shopping mall when she began to feel intensely anxious. The anxiety was accompanied by sensations of choking, smothering, and a sudden sense that the people and stores around her were unreal. She began to fear that she was going crazy and the more she worried about this, the more anxious she became. A guard, seeing that she was in distress, brought her to the mall office where she was able to lie down. A few minutes later, the symptoms began to subside. She went home after leaving the mall, but she did not tell her husband what happened. A week later, she had a similar attack while she was walking down the street. She was able to reach her house where she lay down until the attack ended. In the following 3 weeks, she had two more attacks. Between attacks, she was constantly worried about having another attack. She was finally forced to tell her husband about the problem because she was so fearful of not being able to get help if an attack occurred that she would not leave her house alone or travel on public transportation.
Jоаnne, аge 32, is invоlved with the first mаn that really cоunts in her life. As the couple has become more intimate, Joanne has started to have flashbacks about an uncle who touched her sexually when she was only eight years old. She is distressed to find out that she is shutting down feelings about her boyfriend and distancing herself from him. Although she has been sexual with other men, she says she can’t stand to let herself be sexual with someone she loves and trusts. She startles easily and reports and general increase in anxiety. She is very angry that she has to deal with the feelings about the incidents with her uncle that happened so long ago. She says that she thought she had gotten beyond all that.